The Jesuit Cardinal of Hong Kong has made a plea for positive and constructive communication as a means to bolster peace and spark changes across international and domestic landscapes.
“If we want others to respond receptively to our proposals, present them in some positive tones in the forms of appreciation, encouragement, lessened risk-taking, manageable steps, foreseeable and desirable outcomes,” said Cardinal Stephen Chow Sau-yan, S.J.
In his reflection published by the Sunday Examiner, the weekly magazine of the office of the Bishop of Hong Kong, the prelate shared his perspective on effective communication strategies that could significantly influence global peace efforts.
Cardinal Chow warned against the use of “convoluted comments, offensively critical or condemning rhetoric, undesirable risks, or unforeseeable outcomes desired,” which he noted are unfortunately prevalent in both international and domestic political arenas.
The Cardinal expressed disappointment in the current global leadership styles, which do not adopt “a more positive and constructive approach to usher peace into the world.”
He also pointed out the mirroring of such negative communication styles in family interactions and parenting, suggesting that without a shift, changes both internationally and domestically will remain “wishful thinking”.
Chow said that beyond adopting positive rhetoric, genuine sincerity and empathy are essential for sustaining the credibility and effectiveness of communication.
“If we are not sincere in engaging in better relationships with others, such as intentional dialogue through active listening with empathy, deeper understanding, and looking for common ground to foster mutual development, how can there be a desirable future for all those concerned?” the prelate said.
